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Recently I’ve come to realise I’m sick of having too much ‘stuff’. So over the last few months I’ve cleaned my place out. I mean, really cleaned it out… to the point where I got rid of around half of the things I owned. To put this in perspective for you; visitors to our garage sale kept asking if we were moving overseas.
I found myself at a point where I just didn’t want that many things anymore – what was I holding on to them for anyway? You know the things I mean – we all have them. Those items we never use that we keep just in case circumstances change or that rainy day rolls around… the boxes of things that we still haven’t used, unpacked, or even so much as looked at since moving house a year ago… all those clothes I hadn’t worn in a year or so… a crazy amount of kitchen stuff that never gets used… books that linger on shelves collecting dust… the list goes on. I came to realise that it was time to lighten the load, and that I actually didn’t need any of this stuff at all. So after a garage sale, a market stall, some eBay and Gumtree posts, and a few trips to our local op shop (through a bit of time and research, I managed to avoid anything ending up in landfill!), I was free of unnecessary stuff. And it so felt good! Importantly, I’ve decided to back this up by avoiding buying new stuff, unless it’s really necessary.
While doing all this I’ve discovered that it can take some very conscious thought to revert to a more ‘anti-consumerism’ mode. Our society’s foundations are built upon consumerism and growth, and it seems ingrained that accumulating more ‘stuff’ should equal more happiness. Yet studies are showing that the opposite is true. The more wealth we have and things we buy, the more our happiness tends to decline.
So, this issue we’ve decided to focus on slowing our lives down, and on simplifying – from the stuff we own and buy, to the way we live our lives day-to-day through food, money, travel, communities and even our own minds (see the Feb/Mar '12 issue, on sale now, for the full story). Because ultimately, slowing down = using and buying less = a greener life.










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Hear Hear! Your blog mirrors the same conclusion that we have come to as well in our family. Too much stuff was clogging up our lives. Cluttering our minds, our space and just wasting our time as we needed to go out and earn the money to pay for all that stuff. We got sucked into the consumeristic way of our society. Having started to declutter (still a work in progress) and reduced our consuming (the question before we buy anything is "You may want it - but do you really need it?") we feel so much lighter and happier for doing so.
The kids can see the benefit of the change as they don't have to clean up as much stuff (and mum and dad don't get so cranky) and we have swapped physical gifts for experiences now days (which have long lasting memories - more so than the battery operated thing that lasts for a few hours and then get stuffed in the corner to collect dust and trip over!) and we are saving money to putting towards a long awaited trip at the end of the year.
My husband has been inspired by "The Great Disruption" written by Paul Gilding so your readers may want to add this to their list of readings for 2012.
Happy decluttering!!
It is great to see G Magazine publishing this kind of story, and questioning the 'more is better' mindset. There's some research to show that we are wired, in evolutionary terms, to acquire, but when we reach a point of 'too much', it becomes a diminishing return. Can we, for our own wellbeing, break our programming? Not only does clearing clutter and stuff make you feel better, but it also frees up that increasingly scarce resource (no, not just space!) - time. Stuff steals time! Choosing it, using it, dusting/cleaning/fixing it, moving it, sorting it and - at the end of its life - working out how to get rid of it. And working to earn the money to pay for it in the first place.
For readers interested in a conversation about a world beyond growth - what that would mean, what it would look like - please check out http://postgrowth.org